As Global Head of Research & Leadership Advisory at JRG Partners, I answer this question constantly from boards and employers, so here is the clear version. Make a strong, market-based offer grounded in your benchmarking, rather than trying to guess low or extract their number first. When a candidate won’t share expectations, the answer is not to play a guessing game but to determine a competitive, defensible offer from your own compensation benchmarking and make it. A well-benchmarked offer is fair, competitive, and defensible regardless of whether the candidate revealed their number.
This explainer covers what the term means in practice, why it matters for employers and boards, the distinctions that most often cause confusion, and how the concept shows up in real hiring and governance decisions. It is written for decision-makers who need a clear, accurate working understanding they can act on, not an academic definition.
Key Takeaways
- When a candidate won’t share expectations, make a market-based offer from your benchmarking.
- Do not try to guess low or extract their number first.
- A well-benchmarked offer is competitive and defensible on its own.
- Know the market range for the role before making the offer.
- In many places, asking for salary history is restricted or prohibited anyway.
Don’t Play the Guessing Game
When a candidate declines to share their salary expectations, the instinct to guess, or to keep pressing for their number, is unproductive. Guessing low risks an insultingly weak offer that loses the candidate; pressing for their number can sour the relationship, and in many jurisdictions asking for salary history is legally restricted. The better approach is to sidestep the guessing game entirely: determine what the role is worth in the market and make a competitive offer based on that, rather than trying to anchor to the candidate’s undisclosed number.
Benchmark the Role
The foundation of the offer is compensation benchmarking: knowing what the role is worth in the market for candidates of the caliber you are hiring. A well-benchmarked offer, based on comparable companies, the role, and the market, is fair and competitive regardless of what the candidate would have said. When you know the market range, you can make a strong offer within it confidently, without needing the candidate’s number. The benchmarking, not the candidate’s expectations, is what should anchor the offer, and it makes the offer defensible.
Make a Strong Offer
With the role benchmarked, make a strong, competitive offer, one that reflects the market value of the role and the candidate’s caliber. A strong offer is more likely to close the candidate and start the relationship well than a low one made to test their reaction. If the candidate genuinely wanted more than a competitive, well-benchmarked offer provides, that is a negotiation to have openly, but the starting point should be a strong offer grounded in the market, not a lowball testing what you can get away with. A strong, benchmarked offer is the productive response.
How It Works in Practice
In practice, when a candidate won’t share expectations, benchmark the role, determine what it is worth in the market for the caliber of candidate you want, and make a strong, competitive offer based on that benchmarking. You skip the guessing game and the pressing for their number (which may be legally restricted anyway), and anchor the offer to the market value of the role. A well-benchmarked, competitive offer is fair, defensible, and likely to close the candidate, whether or not they revealed their number. If they want more, negotiate openly from there.
Why This Matters for Employers
A candidate withholding expectations is common, and responding by guessing low or pressing for their number loses candidates or sours relationships. Making a strong, benchmarked offer instead, competitive and defensible on its own, is what lets you close the candidate on sound terms regardless of whether they revealed their number.
Common Misconceptions
A common misconception is that you need the candidate’s number to make an offer, so you must extract it. You do not; a well-benchmarked offer based on the market value of the role is fair and competitive regardless. Pressing for the candidate’s number, or guessing low without it, is unnecessary and often counterproductive.
A Practical Example
A candidate declines to share expectations, and one company keeps pressing for their number, souring the relationship, then guesses low and loses them. Another company benchmarks the role, makes a strong, market-based offer, and closes the candidate, who was reassured by a competitive offer made without games. The benchmarked offer, rather than the guessing game, closed the hire.
The Bottom Line
When a candidate won’t share salary expectations, make a strong, competitive offer grounded in your compensation benchmarking rather than guessing low or pressing for their number, because a well-benchmarked offer is fair, competitive, and defensible regardless of whether the candidate revealed their number.
Related Resources
For employers going deeper, see Compensation Benchmarking Template, The Compensation Conversation, How Do I Close an Executive Candidate Who Has Multiple Offers.
Frequently Asked Questions
- Q: What salary should I offer if the candidate won’t share expectations?
- A: A strong, competitive offer grounded in your compensation benchmarking, rather than guessing low or trying to extract their number first.
- Q: Should I press for the candidate’s number?
- A: No; pressing can sour the relationship, and asking for salary history is legally restricted in many places; a benchmarked offer sidesteps the need for it.
- Q: How do I make an offer without their expectations?
- A: By benchmarking the role, determining what it is worth in the market for the caliber of candidate you want, and making a competitive offer based on that.
- Q: Is a benchmarked offer fair without their number?
- A: Yes; a well-benchmarked offer based on the market value of the role is fair, competitive, and defensible regardless of what the candidate would have said.
- Q: What if the candidate wants more than my offer?
- A: Then negotiate openly from a strong, benchmarked starting point, rather than having anchored to a lowball or the candidate’s undisclosed number.
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Tanya Gallardo
Managing Director, Executive Search & AI Talent Strategy
Tanya Gallardo is the Managing Director of Executive Search & AI Talent Strategy at JRG Partners, leading C-suite and Board engagements across key growth sectors including Technology, Financial Services, and Manufacturing.
With over 18 years of experience specializing in disruptive technology leadership, Tanya is recognized as a leading authority on talent architecture for future-focused executive roles, such as the Chief AI Officer (CAIO) and Chief Digital Officer (CDO). Her expertise lies in accurately assessing the cultural fit and technical depth required to ensure a high return on investment (ROI) for critical leadership appointments.
Prior to her role at JRG Partners, Tanya held senior roles directing global talent acquisition strategies at a major publicly-traded technology firm, advising on organizational design and succession planning for emerging executive functions. She is a recognized speaker and contributor to industry events, sharing data-driven insights on executive compensation, leadership development, and the measurable business impact of C-suite talent.
